Bad Consequences of the Tongue
The most important
part of the body is the heart as has been mentioned by our noble
Prophet Muhammed - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - in his saying,
Indeed there is a piece of flesh in your body that, if it
be sound, then the whole body will be sound and if it be corrupt
then the whole body will be corrupt. Indeed it is the heart.
- Sahih al-Bukhari [1/49] & Sahih al-Muslim 
The heart is
thus the port where all actions stem, whether good or evil. If the
heart is good then the actions will be good and if the heart is
corrupt then the actions will be bad. The heart is the place where
Allah scans, as the Messenger of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam
- says, Allah does not look at your bodies nor your faces
but he scans your heart and actions. - Sahih al-Muslim [4/6221]
As for the heart,
Allah has commanded us to love Him and His Messenger, to love the
righteous people, to love that which Allah loves and to hate all
which Allah hates. The tongue acts accordingly, because.... the
tongue expresses what is in the heart.
The Tongue Expresses what is in the Heart:
If a person
is good, it reflects in their saying. Allah has made it very easy
for the tongue to move, and it is not difficult to realize that
a persons tongue moves much more as if compared to the limbs.
So if a person is not careful about what he says, even a single
saying of his can invalidate his actions. It is for this reason
that the whole body warns the tongue saying, Fear Allah concerning
us, for we are (dependant) upon you. If you are upright then we
will be upright and if you are corrupt then we will be corrupt.
- Sunan at-Tirmidhi (1912), Mishkaat (4838) and Riyaadh as-Saleheen
And at the same
time, the tongue is a great blessing from Allah. If we look at the
animals, who are unable to speak, we realize the importance of this
great tool of communication.
that we should show for this great blessing should include, using
it for the obedience to Allah, for reading the Qur'aan, for seeking
Knowledge, to enjoin good and forbidding evil. The prohibitions
of the tongue are that you do not lie, abuse, use foul language,
backbite and slander.
Allah says in
the begining of Soorah al-Mumineen, Indeed successful are
the Believers, those who in their prayer have Khushoo (fear
of Allah) and those who refrain from vain talk. [Soorah Mumineen
Here Allah mentions
that refraining from vain talk is a sign of the successful believers.
Allah also mentions refraining from vain talk after he mentions
al-Khushoo. This is because too much talk makes the heart
hard. It is not possible to reach the level of Khushoo (fear
of Allah) unless one refrains from vain talk.
Imaam an-Nawawee - rahimahullah - mentions Know it is incumbent
upon all to guard their tongues from most speech, except a word
that has some benefit in it.... - Kitaabul-Adhkaar
And for those
who take heed there is a constant reminder in the verse, Not
a word is said except that there is a watcher by him ready to record
it. - [Soorah Qaf (50):18]
of Allah, Muhammed - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said, Whoever
believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or keep silent.
Imaam ash-Shafiee - rahimahullah - said. If you wish to speak
then it is upon you to think before you speak. If you think there
is good in it then speak and if not then do not speak.
mentioned Qur'aanic verses, Hadeeth (sayings) of our noble Prophet
and advices by the scholars of Islaam are a guide for those searching
for salvation against vain talk. So before we talk, should we not
? Will this
saying of mine please Allah?
? Will this
saying of mine bring me closer to Allah?
? Does this
saying earn with it obedience to Allah?
If yes, then
speak, otherwise one should keep quiet.
Guarding your tongue from all Haaram
of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said, Guard your
tongue, stay in your homes and weep over your sins. - Related
by Ibn Mubarak in az-Zuhd (no.134), Musnad Ahmed bin Hambal (5/259),
Sunan at-Tirmidhi (2531) and authenticated by al-Albaanee in as-Saheehah
Also the Messenger
of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said, Most of the
sins of the children of Aadam are from the tongue. - At-Tabaraanee
(3/87/1-2). Authenticated by al-Haafidh al-Mundhiri in al-Targheeb
Mughira bin Shuba - radiAllahu' anhu - : The Prophet - SallAllahu
'alaihi wa sallam - said,
Allah has forbidden for you:(1) to be undutiful to your mothers,
(2) to bury your daughters alive, (3) not to pay the rights of the
poor and others (i.e. charity) and (4) to beg of men. And Allah
has hated for you: (1) Qil and Qal (sinful and useless talk, like
backbiting or that one talks too much about others), (2) to ask
too many questions (in disputed religious matters, etc.), (3) to
waste your wealth (by extravagance with lack of wisdom and thinking).
- Sahih al-Bukhari [3:591]
Abu Moosa al-Asharee
- radiAllahu' anhu - said, O Messenger of Allah, which of
the Muslims are better? The Messenger of Allah said, Those
who do not harm the Muslims with their tongues and hands.
- Saheeh al-Bukhari (1/10) and Saheeh al-Muslim (1/64)
Sahl ibn Saad
- radiAllahu' anhu - reported that the Messenger of Allah said,
Whoever guards what is between his jaws and legs. I shall
guarantee him paradise. - Saheeh al-Bukhari (8/481). A similar
narration can be found in Muwatta of Imam Malik (56/11) and Sunan
When the Companion
of the Prophet, Muadh ibn Jabal - radiAllahu' anhu - asked
the Prophet - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - about that which would
entitle him to enter Paradise and save him from the hell-fire, he
- SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - mentioned the pillars of Islam
and informed Muadh of the importance of the night prayers
and of Jihaad. He - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - then said, Should
I not inform you of the sheet anchor of all this?, and then
took hold of his tongue and said, Exercise restraint on it..
Muadh - radiAllahu' anhu - enquired, O Messenger of
Allah, will we be held responsible for what we say with it?
Thereupon, the Messenger of Allah said, Muadh, will
anything else besides (irresponsible) talk cause the people to be
thrown in the Hell-Fire upon their faces? - Sunan at-Tirmidhi
and Riyaadh as-Saaliheen (2/1522)
Most of the
people who will enter the fire, will do so due to their tongues
So a Muslim must beware and learn to imprison the tongue from vain
talk, for the Messenger of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam
- said, Every saying of the children of Aadam is cursed, expept
for the enjoining good and forbidding the evil or for the remembrance
of Allah. - Sunan at-Tirmidhi
world and all that it contains is cursed, except for the remembrance
of Allah and what supports it,and a scholar and a student.
- Sunan Ibn Majah (no.4112) and and authenticated by Sheikh al-Albani
in Saheehul-Jaami (no.3414)
- radiAllahu' anhu - reports on the authority of the Prophet - SallAllahu
'alaihi wa sallam - that, From the good Islaam of a man, is
that he leaves that which does not benefit him. - Musnad Ahmed
bin Hambal (4/132), Sunan at-Tirmidhi, Sunan Ibn Majah, al-Baihaqi
in Shuab al-Imaan
- rahimahullaah - mentioned in his Musnad on the authority of Anas
radiAllahu anhu who relates that the Prophet - SallAllahu
'alaihi wa sallam - said The eemaan of Allahs servant
will not be upright until his heart is upright and his heart will
not be upright until his tongue is upright. - Also mentioned
in al-Mundhiri (3/234) and al-Iraqee in al-Ihya (8/1539)
One saying ! ! Subhan Allah:
- radiAllahu' anhu - said that he heard the Messenger say, Indeed
a servant (worshipper of Allah) may say a word which he doesnt
realize and it will make him fall into the fire further than the
East and the West.
Abu Hurairah - radiAllahu' anhu - also reported that the Prophet
SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, Indeed a servant may say
a word from which Allahs pleasure is gained and the servant
does not realize it, Allah will raise him up levels. Indeed a servant
may say a word from which Allahs displeasure is gained and
he does not realize it, Allah will put him in Jahanam due to it.
- Saheeh al-Bukhari (8/485), Al-Muwatta (56/6) and in Saheehul-Jaami
- rahimahullaah - along with at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasaai and Ibn Majah
record a Hadeeth on the authority of the Sahabee, Fujani - radiAllahu'
anhu - who said, O Messenger of Allah tell me something that
I may be firm upon?. He - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - answered,
Say, My Lord is Allah and then be upright concerning it.
He asked, What is the thing that you fear for most.
The Messenger of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - took hold
of his tongue and said, This!. - Musnad Ahmed bin Hambal,
Sunan an-Nasaai, Sunan Ibn Majah and Sunan at-Tirmidhi
Allah says in
the Qur'aan, Do not backbite each other, would any of you
wish to eat the flesh of your dead brother, no rather you hate it!!
[Soorah Hujarat :12]
of Allah once asked his Companions, Do you know what is backbiting?
They said, Allah and His Messenger know best.. He -
SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said, To mention about your
brother that which he hates. They said, If that we see
about our brother is true? He - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam
- said, If there is in him what you say about him then that
is backbiting, and if you say of him that which is not true then
you have slandered him. - Saheeh al-Muslim (4/6265), Sunan
Abu Dawood (3/4856) and al-Muwatta (56/10)
- SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - vigorously opposed all aspects
of backbiting, even when it appeared in his own family. For example,
once a woman visited Aaisha - radiAllahu' anha - and when the woman
got up to leave, Aaisha made a sign with her hand indicating to
the Prophet - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - that the woman was
short of stature. The Prophet immediately chastised her, saying
You have backbitten! and in another narration, You
have said a saying that if mixed with the sea it would change its
color. - Mentioned in Ibn Jareer in Tafseer al-Qur'aan al-Adheem,
vol.4, p.328 (30) and Sunan Abu Dawood (3/4857)
Abu Bakra -
radiAllahu' anhu - reports that the Messenger of Allah - SallAllahu
'alaihi wa sallam - said, in his khutbah on the day of Nahr, Indeed
the blood, property and honor are sacred to you, like the sacredness
of this day (arafah), like the sacredness of this place, like
the sacredness of this month; Have I conveyed the message?
- Saheeh al-Bukhari (1/105) and Saheeh al-Muslim (2/2803) and part
of a lengthy narration
And by Allah
he - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - has conveyed the message, so
guard the right of the Believers!
Allah says in
the Qur'aan, Woe to every slanderer and backbiter. [Soorah
of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said, The Gossip-monger
will not enter paradise. [Saheeh al-Bukhari (8/82), Saheeh
al-Muslim (1/187) and Musnad Ahmed bin Hambal]
- SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - passed by two graves and said,
They are being punished. As regards one of them then he used
to go around gossip-mongering and as regards the other then he was
not careful while urinating. - Saheeh al-Bukhari (1/215) and
Saheeh al-Muslim (1/575)
On the authority
of Saeed ibn Zayid that the Messenger of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi
wa sallam - said, Indeed the lowest form of usury is to prolong
the speech about the honor of a Muslim without justice. -
Sunan Abu Dawood (3/4858)
Overcoming the evil habit of backbiting
Imaam an-Nawawee - rahimahullaah - said that one should remember
the punishment of Allah. And remember that Allah is the Lord of
the heavens and the earth. He is the One, aware of ever saying,
at every time. Then if one remembers this, then it is only natural
that one will be modest and shy in this aspect. We need to realize
that when one of us is hurt, when something wrong is said about
the creation, then what about the Creator, who is the All-Seeing
should reflect on the Qur'aanic verse, Do not backbite each
other, would any of you wish to eat the flesh of your dead brother,
no rather you hate it!! [Soorah Hujarat :12]
And we surely
hate even the thought of it.
that your own faults would be revealed, as the Messenger of Allah
- SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said,
O you who believe with your tongues, yet eeman has not entered
your hearts. Do not backbite the Muslims, nor follow their faults.
For he who follows others faults then Allah will declare (disclose)
his faults and he whom Allah reveals his faults, then Allah disgraces
him in his own house. - Sunan Abu Dawood (3/4862) and and
authenticated by Sheikh al-Albani in Saheeh Jaami Sagheer
the advice of the pious scholars of Islaam, among them
Umer ibn Khattab - radiAllahu' anhu - who said, Be careful
from remembering people for it is an illness and be in the remembrance
of Allah for it is a medicine.
A man came to
al-Hasan al-Basri - rahimahullaah - and said that, he heard that
al-Hassan al-Basri had backbitten him. Upon this he - rahimahullaah
- said, Who are you that I may give you my rewards?
Fifth, and the
most important thing to keep in mind is that there is a great reward
to refrain from backbiting, as the Messenger of Allah - SallAllahu
'alaihi wa sallam - said, Whoever protects the honor of his
brother in his absence, Allah will protect his face from the Fire
on the Day of Judgment. - Sunan at-Tirmidhi and and authenticated
by Sheikh al-Albani in Saheeh Sunan at-Tirmidhi (2/1575)
Exceptions to Backbiting
There are few
exceptions to backbiting, that the scholars have classified, among
Oppression: If one has been harmed or ones property
has been unlawfully taken away by another, and this person goes
to the ruler or judge in order to seek justice, this is not backbiting.
the Munkar: If one finds a person involved in evil actions or innovations,
and one is unable to correct his Munkar. It is allowed to seek the
help of a more knowledgeable person, even if it mean defining the
Munkar of the evil-doer or innovator.
a Fatwa (religious verdict): For example, there is a dispute between
a husband and his wife, and if either of them seek the advice of
a religious scholar, then this situation is exempt from backbiting.
a Muslim from evil: For example, if a fellow Muslim is going to
do a business with an dishonest person or if a Muslim is unaware
that the person to whom he is marrying his daughter to, is an unreligious
person; then to advice and guide him is exempt from backbiting.
against innovators and sinners: If a innovator is openly involved
in spreading his innovative beliefs or a sinner remorselessly declares
his sin and is thus being a bad example for others; then warning
others against him is allowed. But if he commits a sin secretly
and as such harms just himself, to openly declare his sins is still
of Allah - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - said, Do not nurse
a grudge (against a Muslim) and do not outbid him for raising the
price and do not nurse aversion (strong dislike) or enmity and do
not enter into a transaction when others have entered into that
transaction and be as fellow-brothers and servants of Allah. A Muslim
is the brother of another, he neither betrays (or deceives him),
nor humiliates him, nor looks down upon him. Piety is here (and
while saying so) he pointed towards his chest three times. All things
of a Muslims are inviolable for his brother in faith, his blood,
his wealth and his honor. - Saheeh al-Muslim (4/6219), part
of the wording being that of Sunan Abu Dawood (3/4864)
He - SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam - also said, No (Muslim)
man will desert a man who is a Muslim in a place where his respect
may be violated and his honor aspersed without Allah deserting him
in a place where he wishes help; and no (Muslim) man who will help
a Muslim in a place where is honor may be aspersed and his respect
violated without Allah helping him in a place where he wishes his
help. - Sunan Abu Dawood (3/4866) and and authenticated by
Sheikh al-Albani in Saheeh Jaami Sagheer